When we finally start to believe in ourselves, what we are capable of, and who we are as people down to our core we develop this iron belief that allows us to stay true in a sea of criticism.
It's only when a person begins to build themselves upon the compliments of others or suffers because of their criticisms that things begin to get really shaky. When this starts to happen, the character of the individual is in question because they are trying to appease others instead of truly being themselves.
If you want to be yourself in this world you also have to have some thick skin.
In this world, the wolves are constantly looking for people to tear apart and ruin their lives. This is just an inevitable reality of living. It's part of the game. Similarly, there are going to be people who will surround you and say anything to get a quick buck from you. If we fall into letting both of these scenarios build our characters we get into deep trouble.
So what's really a solution here?
We have got to trust in ourselves.
Believing in yourself is one of the hardest things to do in this world. There are so many things and people telling us to be someone else that it becomes really hard to listen to that inner voice telling us where to go and what to do. But if you can believe in yourself, you begin heading down a path that can change your entire life. You will be faced with large temptations, but with some iron will and belief you can blast straight through them.
Change for yourself. Change because you want to. Change because it's something that really matters to you and deeply resonates with your purpose in life. If you aren't where you want to be right now then decide to take a leap into the world of personal growth, but never forget to do it for yourself.
When you change for yourself and you live a life on your own terms, you always can look back and say that you actually lived. You lived as the man or woman who was the captain of their own ship. That's someone on a mission. That's someone who could change the world.
So believe in yourself enough to change, and when you do, do it for yourself.
It's only when a person begins to build themselves upon the compliments of others or suffers because of their criticisms that things begin to get really shaky. When this starts to happen, the character of the individual is in question because they are trying to appease others instead of truly being themselves.
If you want to be yourself in this world you also have to have some thick skin.
In this world, the wolves are constantly looking for people to tear apart and ruin their lives. This is just an inevitable reality of living. It's part of the game. Similarly, there are going to be people who will surround you and say anything to get a quick buck from you. If we fall into letting both of these scenarios build our characters we get into deep trouble.
So what's really a solution here?
We have got to trust in ourselves.
Believing in yourself is one of the hardest things to do in this world. There are so many things and people telling us to be someone else that it becomes really hard to listen to that inner voice telling us where to go and what to do. But if you can believe in yourself, you begin heading down a path that can change your entire life. You will be faced with large temptations, but with some iron will and belief you can blast straight through them.
Change for yourself. Change because you want to. Change because it's something that really matters to you and deeply resonates with your purpose in life. If you aren't where you want to be right now then decide to take a leap into the world of personal growth, but never forget to do it for yourself.
When you change for yourself and you live a life on your own terms, you always can look back and say that you actually lived. You lived as the man or woman who was the captain of their own ship. That's someone on a mission. That's someone who could change the world.
So believe in yourself enough to change, and when you do, do it for yourself.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is a professional life coach at AYKME Life Coaching and writes daily articles on the journey of life at The Words Of Encouragement. Take a minute to dive into these Quotes On Change or some Uplifting Quotes for more inspiration in starting your journey forward.
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